Since childhood, we are told about the beautiful princes and lovely princesses. And when we become adults, we really want to find your soul mate, the most intimate of his man. But this is our main mistake – the second half is not necessary to look for. To begin with, it is important to become a harmonious person, and then you will be able to know your person.
How to find your person
Learn to happen yourself.Talk to yourself. Learn to spend time in silence, so you feel comfortable with yourself. During these “quiet” periods, many of your fears and desires will become clear. Learn to disconnect from external stimuli, such as your phone or computer, and listen to your inner voice.
Treat yourself well. Tune in to your own desires, realize that you are a person. Do what you have long wanted to try, for example, sign up for a foreign language course, start drawing or learn to ride a motorcycle. You can go on a journey alone. Learn to enjoy your own company and then be with someone else you will be easier.
Please be patient.Nobody promised that you will meet the person with whom it will be comfortable all life already tomorrow. Don’t label yourself lonely. Look ahead and around you, maybe this person is next to you. Do not despair if the other half is late in your life.
Study the environment.Carefully examine your surroundings – whether there is your person? Maybe you just haven’t noticed it before. See what kind of people you communicate with, because the person you are looking for can meet you in this company.
Start acting. Just sitting around waiting to be found is stupid. Look for, communicate with different people, do not sit at home, meet, do not be afraid to make mistakes.